Let the Love In

As human experiencers, we all desire to be heard, to be noticed and to be accepted.  All share these desires.  No exceptions!  But this is only  the outer layer of what our true desires are.   And what are our true desires?  

That question can be answered in one four lettered word--  Love. 

To be Loved, to feel Love, and to know Love.  This is what we desire the most.

The definitions of Love is as vast as the Universe itself.  It is the only emotion that has a national holiday dedicated in it's name --St. Valentine's day.   And it is the only emotion that has more songs and poems dedicated in it's name than anyone could possibly count or remember. 

But do you, as an individual, really comprehend and fully understand the true definition of Love?

Love can be found anywhere & everywhere.  It is continuously taking place. And it is experienced on different levels, in a wide variety of ways.  There is love for your spouse,  your boyfriend/girlfriend; the love you have for your parents and your assorted relatives & siblings; the love for a child, a pet or a dear close friend. All of these are  Love in it's various forms.  And while each of these levels go from one degree to another, they all have one vital thing in common ...  it exists in our lives. 

But what is Love?  Really?  Love is energy in it's purest and most concentrated form.  It is the most powerful energy in the entire Universe. In fact, it is Love that created the Universe itself; and it is Love that binds it together.  It is that ever-present energy that flows through and around each and every aspect of creation.

Love in our Human Experience


Throughout human history all the way to this present day 21st Century,  obsessions & addictions, pain & abuse  has been, and continues to be, equated to and with Love! 

And the number one emotion that has been and continues to be equated with Love is ... fear.

It is the ONLY emotion known to humankind to have this claim to fame!

Bet you didn't know that ... did you?

How many of you reading this right now ... and be honest... have equated your obsession and/or addiction  and/or fear to Love?  Ok, I'll make it easier for you by asking you the following questions:

Do you find yourself saying, feeling, acting in the following manner:

          - "I can't let them go, I can't stop thinking about them,  I've tried!"? 


          - "I need" to hear their voice, even if it is only a recording, i.e., voice mail? 

          - "I need" to see them ... if only from a distance or a photograph?

          - Go out of your way to just "happen" to be somewhere, be it in a store, out on the street and/or online, somewhere you know they are going to be so you can just "casually" run into them?

OR ...

• Do you find yourself keeping account of all the mistakes someone has committed?

• Do you feel you are unable to forgive ---let go of  the pains and transgressions of the past?

If you answered yes to any one of these questions then it's  not Love!   

If you find yourself doing any of  these things, even on the most innocent of levels ... you are in a state of addiction, obsession ... fear.  You are not in the state of LOVE. 

Let Freedom Ring!

Love, true and genuine Love, is freedom for all  parties involved.  It is the Freedom of being.  It is the state in which you are truly happy whether you are with the one you love or not.  Love does not cling or hold on to another.  Love does not need anything to feel complete and whole.  Love does not keep an accounting of injuries nor does it hold on to the pain.  

Love  just IS. 

When we let Love in we discover Peace.  Our entire being is filled with a contentment that we never believed possible.  With this contentment we are Free.  And with our personal freedom we find ourselves  stepping  aside allowing others to enjoy freedom as well!


As human experiencers we have lived in fear and with fear all our existence.   You would think that we all would be  tired of it by now and give it up.  


Giving up fear in favor of Love?  Wow!  What a concept!  *LOL*


Say No to Fear ... step aside and let Love In ...


After all, what do you have to lose?  Really?

"Step aside and let love in.  Let your eyes be opened to the Love You ARE!  For after all that is said and done ... in the end ... Love is ALL that matters!  It is all that ever Truly Mattered !"  Grandmother to The Oracle, Children of the Luminaries ~ Book II: Training Day

Known as The Empress of the Known & Unknown Universes™ and The Diva of Duct Tape, Julia has made it her personal mission to put Reality back into Spirituality™. Julia sets out to assist people in expanding their conscious awareness through her rather unique and personal take on the human experience. 

In the style of Erma Bombeck, Julia utilizes her own brand of humor and down to earth demeanor to get her messages across in an all so delightful way. 

Julia is  currently  with the Louisville Metro Police Department Major Crimes Unit  and is presently pursuing a degree in psychology specializing in Criminal profiling. 

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