Death. No matter what shape or form it takes it triggers intense
emotions. Even if we barely knew the person or never met the person we
each feel something when we are told of their passing. And the deep pain of sorrow we feel when an animal passes, be it our pets or an animal in the wild, is something we all share.
With some it's a deep sense of
loss. With others it is a wake up call. Bottom line, with each
passing, be it human or a beloved pet, Death
reminds us how precious and how very short our time on this earth really
is. It touches us down to the very depths of our inner core. Consciously or unconsciously.
Many often wonder if there was more that
could have been done to prevent
the death of another. Especially, and most in particularly, when it comes to
suicide.
Sadly, suicide is still considered taboo. It is a subject
everyone knows about, but very rarely discusses openly and honestly. Unfortunately, most rather use anger to deal with suicides. And while I do understand the angst many feel towards suicide, being hostile
is not only hurtful, it's pointless. It's a useless waste of time and energy born out of ignorance.
Knowledge is a powerful tool that leads to understanding. Understanding leads to compassion. Compassion leads to saving lives. I firmly believe if we all take the time to arm ourselves with the appropriate knowledge and tools we can really help those thinking and/or planning suicide. We can help them comprehend that they are not alone, that their burdens can be lifted, that they don't have to be alone to deal whatever it is they are dealing with. Most importantly, maybe--just maybe we can help those in that mind set to see that taking their lives isn't the answer. Not only that, with the right understanding, we also help those who have lost a loved one to suicide. Banding together in genuine loving kindness, lending our strength to those in need can, and most certainly does, make a huge difference! I know this to be true!
The key to understanding suicide or those contemplating suicide is remembering this...
Suicide is not chosen!
It happens when the pain exceeds
resources for coping with pain.
People who are feeling suicidal are not bad people. They are not crazy, or weak, or flawed. It doesn't even mean that they really want to die. It only means that they have more pain than they can cope with.
And for those of you who are under the misconceive notion that willpower is the answer...Imagine someone piling dozens of 10 pound weights on your shoulders. Imagine having to carry that amount of weight around every single day. Eventually you would collapse from the weight itself. No matter how much you want to remain standing you would fall down and be crushed under all that weight.
When pain exceeds pain-coping resources, suicidal feelings are the result.
- Suicide is neither wrong nor right.
- Suicide is morally neutral.
- It is not a defect of character.
- Suicide is an imbalance of pain versus coping resources.
The Bottom line is this: Suicide is a very serious matter that is reaching epidemic proportions. Again, the only way we can get a handle on this is to get informed and treat everyone as we ourselves would want to be treated. With respect, kindness, understanding and compassion. And for the sake of everyone...talk about it!
There are those who have overcome their contemplations of suicide and lived to tell the tale thus proving suicide can be prevented in many cases. But prevention can't happen without first arming ourselves with the proper knowledge and the tools to assist those in need. We have to start talking about it! We have to get informed! We have to be brave (even if we're scared ourselves) and reach out to those who may be planning to take their life.
Suicide. Talk about it. Get the information and don't be afraid to discuss it. Get yourselves out of the dark ages for crissakes! Yea, talking about it will jerk your ass out of your comfort zone. Yes, it will make you angry. But instead of lashing out in a hurtful manner, try a little kindness, a little compassion. Try being something other than an ignorant ass. You'll be better for it. The whole world will benefit from it. And maybe...just maybe...together we can save lives.
On August 11, 2014 the world was shocked by the death of beloved entertainer Robin Williams. On the anniversary of his passing I honor his memory by bringing awareness to this issue of suicide.
In Loving Memory
SPECIAL NOTE: Arthur Crowe, the artist of this beautiful rendition of Robin Williams, was provided free of charge. Mr. Crowe's artistic gifts clearly represents his admiration and adoration of the man we all came to know and love through TV, movies and stage. But more than that, through his generosity, Mr. Crowe allows us to share our unique expression of our individual devotion of the wonderfully magnificent being known as Robin Williams.
Source material found at
http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/
Graphic provided by Arthur Crowe at http://arthurcrowesfactory.com/
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