Julia K Cole

If you don't love yourself ...how can you expect anyone to love you? Contrary to what many may believe, Loving yourself is not an act of selfishness .   That would be narcissism.  Sadly, most confuse self-love with narcissism.   But I am here to tell you that there is a vast difference between self-love and being narcissistic. Self-love is acceptance of who you are, as you are,  in this moment.  Narcissism detests acceptance of anything that does not meet it's unreachable standards and  is not perfect. People with Self-love embrace change -- they actually welcome it.   They happily and gratefully accept the changes that occur with our bodies over time.   Self-love has no need to flaunt.  It requires no attention from outside sources as it is self contained and content. Narcissism, on the other hand, lives in constant fear of change.  And is terrified of not being admired and envied.   N...

Around this time of year most people here in the United States,  and other places in the world as well, turn their attention towards love.    February being the month for St. Valentine's Day and all...i t is to be expected Sadly, as the masses set out to impress a love interest with an assortment of cards, gifts, dinners, cruises and all that there,  I guarantee that the majority of people will overlook--okay scratch that--they'll out right IGNORE one person in particular.   Their own Self .    Not surprising really.  You see (as I'm pretty sure you already are aware) Human Experiencers develop the habit of overlooking his or her self early in their earthly life.  We Human Experiencers are told it is selfish to think of one's self!  To do for one's Self!    Then we are scolded to take better care of ourselves whenever we get sick.  Talk about your mixed messages.  Oy Vey!  No wonder the masses are dazed and ...

Here's something I didn't even know existed.  National Bacon Day!!!!   Why am I ALWAYS the last to know these things??????!!! Who would'a thunk it?    This is one for Bacon Lovers Everywhere!!!   Don't believe me?  Well Check it out for your self.  I stumbled across this on msnNOW.com    Click HERE   or just copy and paste the URL below http://now.msn.com/national-bacon-day-2013-photos-for-bacon-lovers