Friday, May 1, 2015

Stages of The Awakening Process: Part 2

Your awakening process parallels your physical stages of life and all that goes along with it. 
  • Conception
  • Gestation
  • Birth
  • Infant - Toddler
  • Young Child - Early Adolescence
  • Late Adolescence - Early Adult
  • Mid-Late Adulthood
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Conception & Gestation

It occurs when  you know  there is  more to life than what you see and experience in every day life.  It happens in that very moment you begin to question all you were taught and everything you once accepted as truth no longer feels right.  No longer feels true.    Try as you might, this  feeling doesn't go away.   In fact, the more you try to ignore it, push it aside, cover it up with various distractions, that feeling grows stronger. 

For those brought up in any kind of strict religious environment, this feeling can be most terrifying.  You find yourself caught between your loyalties to your beliefs and the ever growing feeling that propels you forward.    Out of love (and their own fears) those closest to you attempt to bring you back to your senses.   And despite and in spite of your own fears, you continue on.  Unsure of where it will all lead, unsure if in fact what you're feeling is real, you continue on.  Why?  Because something down deep says you must.  
Though the fog of uncertainty is thick,  that  something deep down inside of you  prods you on.   It is a solitary nudge that develops into a twinkling of having to know what it is--whatever it may be prompts you to continue on despite, and yes in spite of,  all the fears that keep cropping up.

This is the conception of your spiritual awakening.

What happens next is very much like the beginning of a new life growing inside a mother's womb known as the gestation period.   During this time, the microscopic nucleus  now begins multiplying itself.    Your spiritual awakening is now Energetically growing from within, stretching your physical awareness to the brink of insanity.  The world around you, though familiar, takes on a strange new wonderful aliveness.  All around you is a curiosity.  Yet at the same time, you notice this odd detachment of old familiar places, things and yes, even people.  You begin to notice too that the people in your life are starting to avoid you and/or you them.    For some, their work no longer challenges them so they seek other employment, many times a job they've never considered before.  Conversations with  friends and  seem uninteresting to you now.  The little nudge that has been prodding you is now pushing you to seek out like minded individuals.  Prompting you to seek out that seemingly unattainable knowledge to feed an unquenchable thirst and satisfy your unending hunger.  

You start to notice a change in your physical body.  These changes come in many forms.  Food allergies is very common.  Nothing to worry about.  This is all part of the process.  Certain tones and volumes of particular sounds begin to bother you.  Nothing to be concerned about.  All part of the process!  

You will feel strong emotions one moment and in a flash you feel nothing at all.  Not to worry!  This too is all part of the process!

Whatever stage you find yourself in always remember to be Kind to Your SELF! 


Keep In Mind ...

This is not a race of any kind!  You will reach maturity in your own divine timing!


Every single person is where they are suppose to be ... when they are suppose to be ... at the exact moment they are suppose to be -- Doing and acting as they are suppose to be!


For the short list of "symptoms" of the Awakening Process, and suggestions on how to work through the process,  you can find them by clicking HERE,  HERE,  HERE  and HERE 


*Disclaimer: ALWAYS check with a health care professional FIRST!  

SPECIAL NOTE: many health care professionals are  now using their own personal awakening experiences to help others going through the stages.  We applaud these brave individuals for boldly moving forward and making the necessary changes in how people are treated.


Excerpts from The ZEN of Duct Tape:  An Empress Is Born



































About Julia K. Cole

What can you expect from someone who considers Putting Reality Back Into Spirituality a personal calling? Straight forward answers that lead to life-changing experiences on a soul level!

Known as The Empress of the Known & Unknown Universes™ and The Diva of Duct Tape, Julia has made it her personal mission to put Reality back into Spirituality™. Julia sets out to assist people in expanding their conscious awareness through her rather unique and personal take on the human experience. 

In the style of Erma Bombeck, Julia utilizes her own brand of humor and down to earth demeanor to get her messages across in an all so delightful way. 

As a writer, Julia is a virtual powerhouse of creativity.  Among Julia's literary accomplishments is  the  Children of the Luminaries  trilogy;  Book One: The Coming Storm can be purchased by clicking Here.   

Book Two  of the trilogy is due out in the Fall of 2015 and Book Three will be available in 2016.  The long anticipated ZEN of Duct Tape:  An Empress Is Born will be out in 2016.  As well as the Teddy Mitchell Chronicles.


Julia has also contributed to several other publications including Brad Steiger's  Real Zombies, The Living Dead, and Creatures of the Apocalypse  Click HERE for the review; and Marie D. Jones' Destiny vs. Choice  Click HERE    




    PLEASE NOTE:  All artwork, unless otherwise specified, are the property of the individual artists themselves. The author of these blogs claims no ownership of the original artwork, but only of the sig tags created using said artwork. Each sig tag shown on these blogs include the appropriate copyright information of the Artists and the unique licensure for use.

    Reproduction and copying of said work without proper authority is strictly prohibited


    Unless otherwise specified, ALL articles on this Blogger are the property of Julia K. Cole.  The ZEN of Duct Tape™, it's name, teachings, modalities, and all excerpts; the nicknames The Empress of the Known & Unknown Universes™ and The Diva of Duct Tape™,  The Duct Tape Diva™; Putting Reality Back Into Spirituality™, Reality back into Spirituality are the property and trade marks of Julia K. Cole and are protected under Copy Right Laws both here in the USA and Around The World.  




    Do You Believe?

    Do you believe that Love conquers all?

    Do you believe that Love can change a person and prompt them into facing and overcoming their fears?

    Do you believe that Love can save the day?



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    Book One: The Coming Storm launches the saga of The Oracle and her mentor Demetrius as they set out on an adventure of any life time!  To stop the dark lord Dagon and his minions from obtaining the Ultimate Power and becoming ruler of all multi-verses!

    Join The Oracle and Demetrius on their incredible journey!  

    Be witness to the profound transformation of The Oracle as she steps into the role of champion.



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    If you enjoy Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, Game of Thrones, The Hunger Games and all things spiritually enlightening then you'll love Children of the Luminaries trilogy!  


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    Read the first chapter of Children of the Luminaries Book One: The Coming Storm

    Click HERE







    Thursday, April 23, 2015

    Stages of The Awakening Process: Part 1

     Your awakening process isn’t just about becoming consciously aware -- it's about growing up and maturing as well.    For many, this doesn’t always  go hand in hand.  

    • There are those who believe that just being aware is enough.  It isn’t.    
    • There are those who believe that if they repeat certain “catch phrases” this will magically and automatically turn them into a full grown and matured awaken individual.  It doesn’t.  
    • There are those who believe that if they hold on to the ways and teachings of those that came before them … this too will make them more awake, more aware and make them  mature, complete and whole.  That is more than enough  It isn't.

    These are only a small part of your spiritual maturity -- the first steps towards your spiritual growth, if you will. 

    Your spiritual awakening is much like your physical growing process.  You have that moment of conception, followed by a  gestation period (for the most part nine months) followed by the birthing process.  From there you go from infant to toddler to young child to adolescent -- and as time passes you become an adult human experiencer.

        No part of this process can be skipped.

    While a toddler  may immolate an adult … this still does not make him/her an adult … does it?  No, it does not.  Adolescents may think they are adults … and may very well behave and act in a more mature way than most adults … but the truth still remains … they are still adolescents!

     The stages of the Awakening parallels your human life during it's growing process in the exact same manner.   And like your human physical process … no steps can or will be skipped.

     Again, for emphasis -- keep in mind that your awakening process parallels your physical stages of life and all that goes along with it. 
    • Conception
    • Gestation
    • Birth
    • Infant - Toddler
    • Young Child - Early Adolescence
    • Late Adolescence - Early Adult
    • Mid-Late Adulthood
    In the following posts, we will be sharing information on the various stages of spiritually maturing.


    Special Note

    Please keep in mind that each stage of development is very important.  Though it may be frustrating for yourself and others, each stage must be worked through in order to gain the necessary foundation of your maturity.

    You will find yourself annoyed by many whom you have out grown and as a result will find it necessary to cut them out of your life at some point of your awakening.

    This is all part of the process.

    For those of you who find yourself on the receiving end of being let go, don't take it personally.   Those who let you go have matured faster. This doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you.   It simply means you are going at your own individual pace.   There is nothing wrong with that.  There is nothing wrong with you.  Everyone goes at their own pace.


    Keep In Mind ...

    This is not a race of any kind!  You will reach maturity in your own divine timing!

    Every single person is where they are suppose to be ... when they are suppose to be ... at the exact moment they are suppose to be -- Doing and acting as they are suppose to be!


    For the short list of "symptoms" of the Awakening Process, and suggestions on how to work through the process,  you can find them by clicking HERE,  HERE,  HERE  and HERE 



    *Disclaimer: ALWAYS check with a health care professional FIRST!  

    SPECIAL NOTE: many health care professionals are  now using their own personal awakening experiences to help others going through the stages.  We applaud these brave individuals for boldly moving forward and making the necessary changes in how people are treated.

    Excerpts from The ZEN of Duct Tape:  An Empress Is Born






    About Julia K. Cole

    What can you expect from someone who considers Putting Reality Back Into Spirituality a personal calling? Straight forward answers that lead to life-changing experiences on a soul level!

    Known as The Empress of the Known & Unknown Universes™ and The Diva of Duct Tape, Julia has made it her personal mission to put Reality back into Spirituality™. Julia sets out to assist people in expanding their conscious awareness through her rather unique and personal take on the human experience. 

    In the style of Erma Bombeck, Julia utilizes her own brand of humor and down to earth demeanor to get her messages across in an all so delightful way. 

    As a writer, Julia is a virtual powerhouse of creativity.  Among Julia's literary accomplishments is  the  Children of the Luminaries  trilogy;  Book One: The Coming Storm can be purchased by clicking Here.   

    Book Two  of the trilogy is due out in the Fall of 2015 and Book Three will be available in 2016.  The long anticipated ZEN of Duct Tape:  An Empress Is Born will be out in 2016.  As well as the Teddy Mitchell Chronicles.

    Julia has also contributed to several other publications including Brad Steiger's  Real Zombies, The Living Dead, and Creatures of the Apocalypse  Click HERE for the review; and Marie D. Jones' Destiny vs. Choice  Click HERE    



      PLEASE NOTE:  All artwork, unless otherwise specified, are the property of the individual artists themselves. The author of these blogs claims no ownership of the original artwork, but only of the sig tags created using said artwork. Each sig tag shown on these blogs include the appropriate copyright information of the Artists and the unique licensure for use.

      Reproduction and copying of said work without proper authority is strictly prohibited


      Unless otherwise specified, ALL articles on this Blogger are the property of Julia K. Cole.  The ZEN of Duct Tape™, it's name, teachings, modalities, and all excerpts; the nicknames The Empress of the Known & Unknown Universes™ and The Diva of Duct Tape™,  The Duct Tape Diva™; Putting Reality Back Into Spirituality™, Reality back into Spirituality are the property and trade marks of Julia K. Cole and are protected under Copy Right Laws both here in the USA and Around The World.  



      Tuesday, April 21, 2015

      Metro Louisville and Kentuckiana Denim Day! Step Forward and Take A Stand Against Rape

      For residents of Metro Louisville and Kentuckiana areas.

      Get involved!  Step Forward!  Take a Stand Against Rape!


      To Register Just Click HERE  or copy and paste the URL below

      https://www.surveymonkey.com/s/DenimDay2015


      Denim Day 2015





      Sunday, April 19, 2015

      What Could Possibly Go Wrong? Right?



      They were given the task to assist the chosen one to regain her memories. But how can they succeed if they must remain hidden so as to not to force the truth of her existence?

      Time was running out.  They knew something had to be done and soon...but what?  


      Read the first chapter of Children of the Luminaries Book One: The Coming Storm


      Click HERE








      Thursday, April 16, 2015

      Communicate, Appreciate and Validate All Those In Your Life

      Well folks, it's that time a year again!  And for those new to this little exercise, here's a little FYI:  It all started back when psychic medium John Edward was doing his TV show Crossing Over.  At the end of the show his parting words were take time to Communicate, Appreciate and Validate those in your life.  He said other stuff after that, but I don't remember what it was.  *BIG Smile*    But the phrase Communicate, Appreciate and Validate is the catch phrase from psychic medium John Edward.  So here's a little ™  and a HUGE Thanks to Johnny!  

      At any rate, that catch phrase really struck a chord with me.  In fact, it is the inspiration and motivation behind this blog and all those other blogs and posts on various social network I've done over the years.   And too, I always make a new sig tag for the occasion.  Like the one you'll see at the end of this blog.  

      Now the reason for me doing this is partly for my own benefit.  But it is a hope of mine that it will inspire others to get off their collective butts and take action and communicate a little appreciation for all those in their lives as well.  And ...Validating not only their existence, but more importantly, their contribution to your current journey through this life.  

      Now this doesn't just include all those happy, loving, wonderful people we all know and enjoy.  Sorry to have to be the one to tell you this...but you know  those ass hats that make your life a living hell?  The ones you hope to the deity of your choosing they fall in a dark bottomless pit and never been seen or heard from again.  You know the ones.  Don't even try to pretend you don't.  Well believe it or not...they had a hand in molding you and assisting you along the way.  

      And before any of you start whining, pissing and moaning.  I KNOW!  It's not easy showing appreciation for those yutzes.  Trust me.  I KNOW!  You see, like you, I have some real pieces of work that have come and gone in my life.  In fact, I still have a few stranglers.  But you know what?  Because of them (and truth be told in spite of them) I am the person that stands/sits before you now. 

      And I'll be honest with you...I have been quite the Goddess of all Bitches from time to time myself.  I'm pretty sure there are a few people out there still struggling with the issues I laid at their feet.  Not proud of the crap I slug.  Just putting it out there for the world to see that I too have been a real piece of work.    

      This exercise is for those who are ready to take that step forward to self empowerment.  When you can think of those that hurt you and say THANK YOU, then you have acknowledged the wonderful contributions those assholes have made in your life.  

      Now I'm not saying you go to them in person and say it.  Unless you want to and can.  Some of those jerks can't accept sincere appreciation.    Which is why I always use the old write'em a letter and then burn it technique.  The energies will find their way to those people (eventually).    But the best part is, YOU will feel better for it right then and there.  Don't believe me?  Well try it out for yourself! What do you have to lose?  Am I right???!  

      Okay.   Now that I got all that there said and done...here is my personal Communicate, Appreciate and Validate!

      To All those who have stood by me through the best of times and most importantly, through the worst of times.  I appreciate you!  I appreciate your contributions in my life.  I appreciate you just being YOU!  I stand before Heaven and Earth and All those here on the internet and Validate your existence, your strengths, your friendship, kinship and Love.   

      To All those who have brought me pain and tears.  THANK YOU!  Because of your efforts I am stronger and better.  Your greatest lessons have been showing me what NOT to do and how NOT to be!  These are your gifts and I shall forever cherish them.  Having you in my life has made me a better person.   And I am truly and eternally grateful for you.  I validate your contributions.  


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      By communicating, appreciating and validating those in your life, you will never have to live with any regrets.  Do it today, each and every day...never pass up a moment to express your gratitude to those in your life. 







      Sunday, April 12, 2015

      International Denim Day: Because Clothing Is NO Excuse!

      In Italy in the 1990s, an 18-year-old was raped by her 45-year-old driving instructor. The assailant was arrested, convicted, and sentenced to jail. He appealed the sentence, and the case made its way to the Italian Supreme Court. The Supreme Court released the perpetrator and dismissed all charges, on the grounds that “because the victim wore very, very tight jeans, she had to help him remove them... and by removing the jeans... it was no longer rape but consensual sex.” 

      Women in the Italian Parliament wore jeans in protest, and the California Senate and Assembly did the same. Denim Day was born.


      Source:  http://www.stsm.org/events/denim-day




      Denim Day is a campaign to prevent sexual violence through education and public awareness.  April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month, and Denim Day is a call to action for all people to come together by wearing denim as a visible sign of protest against sexual violence. By participating in Denim Day this April, you can play a role in the prevention of sexual violence. Every year we ask community members, elected officials, businesses and students to make a social statement with their fashion and on April 29th to wear jeans as a visible means of protest against misconceptions that surround sexual assault.
      Why denim? Denim Day was originally triggered by a ruling by the Italian Supreme Court where a rape conviction was overturned because the justices felt that since the victim was wearing tight jeans she must have helped her rapist remove her jeans, thereby implying consent.  The following day, the women in the Italian Parliament came to work wearing jeans in solidarity with the victim. Denim Day was developed in response to this case and wearing jeans during this annual event has become a symbol of protest against erroneous and destructive attitudes about sexual assault.
      Women of the Italian Legislature protested the decision by wearing jeans to work. As news of the decision spread, so did the protest. In April 1999, a social service agency in Los Angeles established the first Denim Day in the United States.
      DVSAC carries on this tradition.  We wear denim to dispel harmful myths about sexual violence and survivors.
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      Source:  http://www.dvsac.org/denim-day/

      On April 29, 2015 show your support by wearing your jeans!  Get your employer and co-workers involved in this event!




















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